Let me tell you a story about how I became an expert at attraction, dating, and relationships. If you haven't already read my story in the Men’s Dating Coaching section, I won’t be repeating that story here, though it does have so much to do with the person that I am and I suggest you read it. My real story actually starts before I was interested in girls.
I love my big sister with all my heart, but her love life was quite a volatile one. I watched her make mistake after mistake with men. Some were decent men who treated her well, others were very destructive and toxic, but as a child watching my sister set an example for me, I learned what works and what doesn’t. I watched how my sister would treat the men she dated and all the different kinds of reactions they would have. I’d also watch how she would respond to them, the things they did to make her happy even if they lied to her. I saw how her beliefs, attitudes, and self-confidence at the time determined the kind of men she attracted into her life. I got a glimpse into all the game playing that goes on between men and women in order to assert power over each other. I learned so much, that I was able to predict what was going to happen, the eventual downfall of her relationship, and why it would happen!
When I started dating in high school, I noticed some of the same patterns with the women I dated. I noticed that when I was depressed and lonely, I would attract women who were cold and distant towards me. I even went through a “jerk” period of my life, and the women whom I attracted were all vulnerable and easy to manipulate.
After a series of heartbreaks, I became fascinated and obsessed with learning how attraction and relationships work. I read every book I could find, watched many seminars, interviewed all kinds of women and figured out so much inside information from both men and women on a very deep level. I became a professional dating coach for men.
My unique skills have developed since I was a child. Now, as an adult, I’m an authority in the profession, and THE go-to dating coach in Miami. And let me tell you, Miami may be full of beautiful people, but it is the most difficult city to find love.
I understand how men think and feel. I’ve worked with a wide variety of men. I also have worked with women and have many female friends who I can clearly see what their problems were. Throughout working with women, I have helped them screen guys who appear nice on the outside, but show their true colors in the subtlest of actions. I’ve even helped facilitate the courtship of many couples including my cousin and his partner who are now currently happily married as well as many other dating coaching and matchmaking clients.